Whether you want to hear them or not, people will always be forthright about sharing their opinions regarding what you should do with your life. It’s that much more true on the Internet where people feel much more uninhibited to say things to you they’d never tell you face-to-face. I don’t know what possesses some people to dictate what they think someone else should be doing but it happens all the time. While I certainly express my opinions early and often, one thing you will not get from me is what you SHOULD do. I simply present the information I have found that works well for me and allow YOU to decide what is best for you.
Sadly, though, not everyone shares that same mentality. Believe it or not, there are people who take great pleasure in sharing their opinions about what I should be doing to lose weight, be healthy, and live my life. I see these quite often pop up in the comments to blog posts and even in my e-mail box (remember “Doc” who called me a “dead man walking” because of my LDL cholesterol levels?). While I certainly don’t have any problem with hearing what someone suggests might help me with my personal health, sometimes the “help” I receive gets to be a little too aggressive as you will see from the following exchange I had over the weekend.
This e-mail exchange speaks for itself! ENJOY!
Jimmy,
Hello. I have become a low-carb convert and have enjoyed listening to some of your podcasts. One thing I noticed, however, is your attitude (shared by some of your guests) that exercise is not only not helpful to losing weight but somehow counterproductive.
When I read that you now weigh 265, which unless you are 6′ 8″ with 6% body fat, is a lot–I was shocked. Dude, that is just plain fat. And you, who are so well educated, I would have expected more from. It’s not that you don’t know how to eat properly.
Look, the bottom line is that you need to, forgive me for being blunt, get your fat ass into workout mode. You need to both lift weights and find some cardio sport you enjoy (cycling, running and swimming are excellent choices). I would recommend that you look into kettlebells, which are the best way to lift IMO.
As Dr. Cordian points out, we are the products of a long evolutionary line. There is no doubt that our ancestors were quite physically active. I suggest that you consider reevaluating your anti-exercise attitude. I mean, it’s not like it’s working for you.
Myself, I have gone from being 5′ 8″ and weighing 214 lbs to this morning weighing 167.5 lbs after a 43 mile bicycle ride. I attribute my weight loss to eliminating all rice, potatoes, grains and processed foods. The only carbs I eat are fruit, vegetables and some beer, wine and dark chocolate. I lift and cycle as well as hit the heavy bag occasionally.
Best of luck to you and keep up the good work.
See what I mean. This well-meaning reader assumes that the reason I have experienced a 30-pound weight gain this year is because what I have been doing regarding my diet and exercise routine is ineffective. Never mind the fact that I’ve still kept off 150 pounds for nearly five years doing what I’m doing. However, this reader assumes my plan of action in regards to both diet and exercise has been static. Anyone who has been reading my menus blog knows that is just not true. I’ve tried LOTS of things, including going through an intensive exercise program in August with FitCamp where I learned a lot of lessons I am still applying today.
Here was my first response back to the reader:
I appreciate your honesty, but you couldn’t be more wrong about my situation if you tried. There is something strange going on with my insulin levels right now that all the exercise in the world isn’t gonna help with. I’ve explained it in great detail in these posts at my blog:
http://livinlavidalowcarb.com/blog/?p=2366
http://livinlavidalowcarb.com/blog/?p=2377
http://livinlavidalowcarb.com/blog/?p=2431
On the subject of exercise, I believe interval training has been shown to be the best way to burn stored fat in conjunction with a good weight lifting routine to fully exhaust all the muscles each week. That’s how I have been able to grow in muscle volume and strength since I started lifting weights in December 2007. Again, here are the blog posts where I have shared this information previously:
http://livinlavidalowcarb.com/blog/?p=2166
http://livinlavidalowcarb.com/blog/?p=2203
http://livinlavidalowcarb.com/blog/?p=2304
http://livinlavidalowcarb.com/blog/?p=2424
You’ll be surprised to hear that I believe cardio has its place in overall health, although the weight loss benefits are probably not as great as we have been led to believe as so many of my podcast interview guests have shared. Nevertheless, I personally know the daily cardio exercise I did in 2004 during my initial Atkins diet weight loss was ESSENTIAL to improving my health (which is why an entire chapter of my book is dedicated to the subject of exercise). That is why I am engaged in much more of it now than I was even then.
Is 265 pounds on my 6’3″ body a lot? Sure it is, which is why I’m still engaged in the process. This is a highly individualistic issue that contains many different factors which can impact weight. I am eating a “sweet”-free diet along with my low-carb lifestyle and exercise routine currently to get the weight down:
So far, it has produced a 7-pound weight loss in one week and I hope it controls the insulin release enough so I can keep pushing my weight downward again. It certainly has not been for a lack of trying when it comes to managing my weight. My brother Kevin recently died at the age of 41 because he made poor choices along with a predisposition for obesity, diabetes, and heart disease. I am doing my best to not follow him to an early grave.
That said, I appreciate your comments and am happy to announce to you that I am being pro-active about my own personal weight situation. It’s not easy when things aren’t working out the way they are supposed to. But I’m strong enough as a person to NOT give up despite the adversity. Best wishes to you!
One would think after a response like that this guy would let it go. Think again.
Jimmy,
I apologize as I see from reading your blog that you do indeed exercise. That said, obviously you not exercising enough. I suggest you consider taking up cycling or swimming to help you lose weight. Trust me if you cycle 4 times a week or swim that often and eat as you do, though you might look into intermittent fasting, you’ll lose the weight you want to.
Does this guy even READ my blogs? I responded again:
THANKS again for your insights. However, my exercise schedule is rather extensive if you would look at my menus blog. I currently do one hour of Pilates, one hour of yoga, three hours of spin class, 2 hours of volleyball, one hour of weight lifting and several more hours of some other active cardiovascular exercise each week. That’s well over 10 hours of activity per week, so obviously physical fitness is not something I am skimping on in my routine. Again, I don’t do all of these things for weight loss primarily, but rather the conditioning and fitness boost it gives me. I find things I enjoy doing and do them consistently.
Oh, and I have tried intermittent fasting, by the way:
http://livinlavidalowcarb.com/blog/?p=1207
http://livinlavidalowcarb.com/blog/?p=1219
THANK YOU again for your e-mail and I appreciate your concern.
Was THAT the end of the conversation? Nope!
Jimmy,
You’re welcome and it seems to me that you feel as you have all of the answers, which begs the question; knowing all that you know, why are you so overweight?
I think you are kidding yourself to some extent. Pilates and volleyball are hardly what I consider intense workouts. If you do cardio for no more than an hour and do it intensely, I know that it will assist in weight loss, your learned opinion notwithstanding.
Honestly, there is no secret to weight loss. Just consume less than you expend. As you know, eating a low-carb diet assists in controlling insulin and fat transport, but first and foremost it is about calories.
Try upping your exercise and reducing your food intake and see if that doesn’t work for you. I shan’t comment any more on your diet and exercise regimen as you are, no doubt, well aware of anything I might know from what I can tell.
Eat less, exercise more…hmmm, where have I heard that before? It’s quite presumptuous that someone would believe that is the answer to all the weight problems in the world. If only it were that easy. But we know that’s not true for me because that strategy is precisely what I did at FitCamp in August where I restricted my calories and exercised upwards of 4-6 hours a day for two weeks. What was the result? I GAINED weight. So this reader’s simplistic theory to eat less calories and more vigorously exercise has been tried and did not work for me.
I couldn’t help but respond to the demeaning tone of his reply back to me:
Why the sarcasm, my friend? I appreciate your input and value the contributions of your experience. THANKS!
Attempting to clarify what he meant through his mocking of me, here’s what he wrote:
Jimmy,
It’s just that what you’re doing is OBVIOUSLY not working, yet you are so sure of what you know that you dismissed my suggestions out of hand and with citations, no less.
Someone once said that one definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. It really is simple, you are eating too damn much and not exercising enough.
Join your local bike or swim club, start doing really strenuous exercises cut your calories by at least 25% and I guarantee that you will lose the weight.
Thing is that you are what the Brits call too clever by half. Just cut the calories and up the output and you will lose weight. There is no mystery why there aren’t many fat Chinese, Indians or Ethiopians, they just don’t eat 2500+ calories a day.
You gotta love it when people make assumptions about you when they don’t know what they are talking about. Has this guy even noticed I’ve tried various strategies this year to deal with my weight, including my recent “sweet”-free diet? Apparently not. I have not needlessly dismissed his suggestions, but merely explained that what he wants me to do has been tried. Go back to my FitCamp videos again. I’m not doing the same things over and over again as he suggests, so his chiding that I’m eating too much and not exercising enough is hilarious because it assumes nothing has changed in my routine all year. I have to ask it again, does this guy even read my blog?
Cutting my current calories by 25% as suggested by this reader would put my calorie intake at 1675 calories per day while he suggests I simultaneously push my exercise from 10+ hours a week of a variety of resistance and cardiovascular exercises to a more strenuous exercise schedule. And this will “guarantee” weight loss in his opinion. Hmmm, it seems to me the only person who is absolutely sure of himself giving out such monolithic dietary advice is this reader.
Here was my final reply to him before calling it a day:
I am not so narrow-minded in my thinking that I can’t glean from what others have to share. That’s why I enjoy interviewing so many people the world of diet, health, and fitness on my podcast show. I take a little from all of them to help shape my beliefs and opinions about what I along with my listeners
should be doing for their health. It’s definitely not a one-size-fits-all mentality which is why most of America is overweight and out of shape these days. I appreciate your ideas and welcome them anytime.
What do you think about this reader’s “advice” for me? Feel free to share your comments and reaction to what he wrote to me. Is he right that all I need to do is cut the calories and up the exercise? What say YOU?
11-7-08 UPDATE: The guy just had to get in one more dig at me. Here’s what he wrote:
Jimmy,
Hello again. Wow, was I surprised to see our exchange on your blog. It takes some courage on your part and I give you credit for it. You are correct, I do not read you blog regularly, as I admitted in my email. I said I had listened to some of your podcasts and that is the extent of it.
I stand by what I wrote. You know, it is that simple. You exercise and reduce calories to the point of running a caloric deficit and you WILL lose weight. Unless you can somehow defy physics, it is impossible to gain weight while in a caloric deficit.
I would tell you everything I wrote to your face were we close enough. I am man enough to stand behind what I say as I am sure you are man enough to take it. Frankly it is a bit insulting for you to insinuate otherwise. But hey, I guess I hurt your feelings. Sorry man.
But hey, you’re the guy with the blog and the famous and learned guests and I’m just a guy who, as you wrote, doesn’t know what he’s talking about. Thing is that you’re fat and I’m not. Go figure.
There’s no need to waste any more brain cells over this guy! He did have to get the last word in, though, didn’t he? ![]()











